2:52 PM
Bus Enthusiasts...Sometimes, I really feel sad, for that some seniors treat some juniors very differently, and it's very different until it can turn out to be a sad case, like criticism and maybe biasness?
Kiddies....
Kiddos...
These are the 2 common terms that some seniors may use it towards some juniors.. I hear until I don't even want to accept the fact that these 2 words exist in my dictionary...
Barriers....
Sometimes I really feel very sad when there are barriers in between the seniors and the juniors.. The seniors will tend to restrict not a little, but a lot of things to the juniors... It's like the juniors are not given any chances and the seniors straightaway label them differently.. I HATE this feeling and barriers don't exist in my dictionary as well..
Sometimes I just feel very sad, even within our interest group alone, there's such barrier exist, and criticism occurs frequently... Just because of a particular mistake or any wrongdoing that the juniors may have done just in the forum itself (SGForums), and it has created a very bad impression among the seniors towards them and hence resulted in treating them very differently.. Attitude and behaviors in bus forum doesn't mean EVERYTHING..
Yes... I admit that last time I used to commit quite a number of mistakes/wrongdoings, and the seniors were willing to give me chances to change it... But I found out that this doesn't happen to every single one of the people.. Still, with the chances that were given to me, I slowly really changed and transform myself to a person with a better character, and I really thank for all the chances that were given to me... Likewise, I feel that everyone should be treated the same way too..
This has been in my mind for quite some time, and now, this is the time that I really want to voice it out...
Ben, XY and Isaac, if you have read this entry, I really hope that the 4 of us can really lead by example, to really show our love, care and concern to all our friends, especially within this interest group itself, instead of having lots of barriers and everything that cause that gap to be widen further... Together, we can really have a good and great impact on others and of course, to be forgiving to them for the mistakes/wrongdoing that anyone here may have done.. Let's continue to be the salt and the light of the world and really show others what we can do. Cheers!
Victor Lim