11:59 PM
My dear “friend” (I don’t know if you still regard me as one)Well, I could be making my time more productive like preparing myself for tomorrow’s assignment but I think it'd be better for me to seek comments from other people on how I should change you.
I've known you for more than a year already or so. The first impression I got from you wasn’t a really good one. But I chose not to bear negative thoughts of you as I may have problems in me that you're unhappy about too. Your behavior was like those of typical Singaporeans simply jump into conclusion and never analyze the situations deep in mind. Sometimes the way you do it irritates people around you.
One thing I admire you is that you got a very high self esteem (or rather, not sensitive to others). Yes, you don’t seem to bother about what others say about you. But that doesn’t mean that you can simply ignore others and think that you are always right. Judging things by their cover is definitely not the way to go.
Of course, I am appreciative for what you have contributed to the bus enthusiast community. In the z8 forums, you have contributed a lot of pictures and also cameo list for the day. However, please be more sensitive at times. For example, you have the habit of posting your spottings only after the day which the bus has been cameo-ed on. Nevertheless, since you have spotted some rare cameos on certain services, why don’t you snap photos of them when you have a camera? Not only that your efforts in doing such things seemed fertile, but also an act to bring out the jealousy of people who are unable to catch a glimpse of these cameos. Despite the fact that other bus enthusiasts are rather jealous of what you have spotted, they are unwilling to voice out because they try to tolerate your actions since you are the only girl on this forum.
Nevertheless, you have a habit of spoiling the day at times. For example, when jack and us went out together last week, Jack has already agreed that he would treat us. However, it was you who spoilt the day, complaining that the food is so expensive that you cannot afford it. As Jack has already agreed that he would TREAT, you should not have rejected his offer and back out at the last minute. This is so impolite of you. Moreover, you have also spoilt the day by stating that “I doubt the group photo looks nice.” Is this an act of disarray from you after the meal? It is also so uncouth of you to leave us in the lurch without saying anything on that day.
Now, I had enough of you. I don’t care whether you want to have chicken rice or hot milo. It’s none of my business now. You do what you like – throwing tantrums around, go around pissing people off, eat your favourite chicken rice and have hot milo for your meal, posting pictures taken inside Bukit Panjang Interchange and stuff etc. I regret having such a “friend” like you who likes to create criticisms and in the end screw up good friendships. Do a self reflection upon yourself. You shall not come to me and cry for help in future until you have realized your mistakes.
Goodbye to the days that we have forged friendship. Goodbye to the times when we spent great moments together. We shall be friends again only until after you have come round your senses and realized what mistakes you have committed.
This is not all, my fellow friends. I did not create this entry with the intention of personal attack. I just hope that I could help by doing a little to change this attitude in my “friend”. To everyone who is reading this pals. I need advice.
Victor Lim